Relationships & Marriage

A relationship can change without ending. Two people still live together, but affection, desire and closeness have faded. In other cases, there is attraction and regular communication, yet the relationship never moves toward commitment. The other person comes close, withdraws, returns and leaves you uncertain about where you stand.

I examine these situations individually. A relationship that began a few months ago requires a different approach from a marriage of thirty-five years, with children, shared responsibilities and a long history.

My work considers what has happened between the people involved, what is keeping the situation where it is, and the change you are seeking.

Reconciliation After Separation

When a relationship has ended, I examine the history before deciding whether I can accept the case.

I need to understand what brought you together, what caused the separation, what has happened since, whether another person is involved and what contact remains between you. The length of time since the separation is part of that assessment; it does not automatically determine whether I accept or decline a case.

Reconciliation work concerns people who shared an actual romantic relationship and a personal history. Its purpose is to address the separation and work toward renewed contact and a return to the relationship.

Love Binding & Strengthening the Relationship

Reconciliation and love binding serve different purposes. Reconciliation work addresses the return. Love binding is directed toward strengthening and stabilizing the relationship.

Someone returning does not, by itself, resolve the difficulties that led to the separation. For that reason, when I accept reconciliation work, my approach also considers what is needed to strengthen the bond afterward.

I also consider this work for existing couples experiencing emotional distance, fading passion, divided attention or repeated interest in people outside the relationship. The intention is to strengthen emotional and romantic attachment, closeness and commitment within the couple.

Commitment & Marriage

Some people contact me because a relationship has remained uncertain for years. There may be affection and attraction, but engagement, marriage or a shared future is continually postponed.

Others face family opposition, conflicting expectations or outside interference.

I examine the particular obstacle and the commitment you are seeking. Work concerning a delayed marriage is prepared around that situation, rather than treated as identical to work for reconciliation or renewed passion.

Each Case Requires Its Own Work

Relationships break down for different reasons: anger, betrayal, distance, family interference, loss of trust or years of unresolved disappointment. Sometimes love remains but trust has gone. Sometimes there is passion without stability.

Before proposing work, I consider the history, present circumstances, people involved and complexity of the case. I personally prepare and perform every case I accept.

The fee is determined after assessment and reflects the preparation, materials and combination of work required. I explain the proposed work and its cost before you decide to proceed.

If You Have Already Tried Elsewhere

Previous unsuccessful work does not automatically rule out an assessment.

Tell me what was undertaken, when it was performed and what happened afterward. I review the situation as it stands now and decide whether there is an appropriate approach I am willing to undertake.

I accept cases selectively and do not promise a particular outcome or timetable.

Tell Me About Your Situation. Send me a private message explaining your relationship, what changed, how long the difficulty has continued and what you want to address. Include any previous spiritual work undertaken for the situation.

I read inquiries personally. If I can consider your case, I will explain the next step.

Send Me Your Case